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I feel ya bro

Firstly, you are not alone. Secondly, I can share only my experience: I was slim and thin and most of my friends and family knows me as thin. After I got my current job, there was this woman that make a lot of food in the Job's kitchen and made sure everybody is eating and getting their meal. I always wanted to gain weight, so thanks to her I was fattening up pretty fast. No one could missed the changes that were happening to me, while in the job everyone was pleased with that because everybody was gaining weight, friends and family started to mocking me and pressed me to lose the weight I gained. But once I decided no one could effect me. I just was eating more even in front of the friends. Until it became a fact, and no one is telling me something about the newly weight I gained. So it's up to you, either to listen to them or let them understand you like it this way.

So you're single you say? Don't advertise it that much. You'll get all the glompers on your case in a hurry.

Glomper= People who feel the overwhelming need to waste your PM views wondering how you're doing and saying hello.

Don't worry. I'm sure you'll find someone fun to talk to who won't drive you crazy.

It might take awhile.

Good luck!

No problem.


And you can be a public as you like. Everyone is just as excited to see it as you are to show it off.


Have fun.